From a Man's Perspective...

Cheating: a topic many dread yet have so much to say about it. A couple of days ago I was having a chat with a friend of mine(male) and he made some very interesting viewpoints. When I asked about cheating, this was his reply: "Its not right at all because the Bible says 'Do unto others as you have them do unto you" I don't understand why someone would do something like that to someone they claim they love. There are many things that could happen to you like getting killed. I've actually lost a friend to cheating and that really hurts because it is unnecessary for a person to lose their life over something so stupid" As our conversation continued it took a kinky turn, last I recall we were talking about the downside of cheating and the next thing he was telling me about the upsides. He said: "You get to have a lot of fun because when you do something you don't want to be caught doing, the adrenalin rush excites you! The fact that it is going to get you into trouble makes it more...eish its indescribable. The lust is uncontrollable, you find yourself indulging in the forbidden fruit. The list of reasons behind cheating is endless. It could be that you are not satisfied in your current relationship, there is just that something that is lacking. Or the man or woman could have an unquenchable thirst. Some may cheat to boost their egos. So I went on to ask him if he would ever cheat on his current girlfriend. He said the following: "It would depend, on the way she treats me because if I'm not happy and don't get any action in the bedroom(or anywhere else) then I will gladly look for it elsewhere. There is a golden rule when it comes to cheating-If you're gonna cheat DON'T GET CAUGHT! To this reply I was gobsmacked, my next question was: What would you do if the tables were turned? My dear friend laughed, then was silent for a good 3 minutes and then said: "Oh well...I would...it would devastate me because its just not cool man, I would feel like my dignity has been lowered and I have been betrayed and taken for a fool. I would feel unimportant and doubt my capabilities as a man. I have an appetite for attractive women and I am easily tempted. I try to hide it but that's just the way it is.

Well then, I hope you can now decipher between the bad(and the very good) things about cheating that my dear friend has mentioned. Lets keep it clean folks

Stay Fierce & Fabulous xxx